Speaking of Teens
Ep 24 – Part 1 of 2 - Teenagers, “Rape Culture”, Sexual Assault, and Consent
The topic of consent is so multifaceted and complex, one episode just won’t do it justice. Before we can talk to our teenagers about consent, what it means, how you get it and how you give it, we really need to understand the bigger issues at play and what we’re up against.
We must examine the backdrop of societal and cultural issues, social norms, gender stereotypes and the justice system that combine to make sexual harassment and sexual violence the norm.
Our teens not only operate within this culture, but their biases and their attitudes about one another are intensified by their developmental stage and need for acceptance by their peers.
Sexual harassment and sexual assault among teenagers is rampant and to have better conversations with them – to help them understand how to treat one another, we need to see their behavior in the larger context.
Join me as we discuss these issues leading up to our conversation about consent in Episode #25: Part 2 - Teenagers, “Rape Culture”, Sexual Assault, and Consent, next week.
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Other Relevant Podcast Episodes (in order of mention in Ep. #24)
Ep. #23 Popularity, Friend Groups and "Mean Girl Behavior"
Relevant Resources (no affiliate links)
RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network
16 Ways You Can Stand Up Against Rape Culture
Speak (novel by Laurie Halse Anderson)
Relevant Sources
Reference to a "Stacy"
"Less Than Human": The Psychology of Cruelty" David Livingstone Smith
Senate Testimony of Christine Blasey Ford
Why Don't They Tell? Teens and Sexual Assault Disclosure
Normalizing Sexual Violence: Young Women Account for Harassment and Abuse
The Talk (Making Caring Common Project) - Harvard Graduate School of Education
The Trouble with Boys: What Lies Behind the Flood of Teenage Sexual Assault Stories?
Sexual Violence and Its Discontents
"Rape is the new Black": Humor's Potential for Reinforcing and Subverting Rape Culture
Oppression Through Acceptance? Predicting Rape Myth Acceptance and Attitudes Toward Rape Victims
Sexual Violence Prevention with Young Adult Males
What We Get Wrong About Misogyny
You might be interested in one or more of the following FREE GUIDES:
“10 Keys to Unlock Your Teen’s Emotional Intelligence”
“The Challenging Adolescent Brain” (e-book)
“Emotional Awareness Strategies” (for parents)
“Why Doesn’t My Teen Sleep?” (e-book)
“Communication for Teen Cooperation”