Speaking of Teens
Ep 28 – Things Your Teenager Really Wished You Understood
Have you ever wanted to peer into your teen’s brain and see exactly what they were thinking? While they can be pretty darn “vocal” when they’re upset, they’re most often unable to fully articulate what they really want you to understand.
Often, however, they’re able to write about it later or talk to another adult about it…and that’s what I’ve got for you today - the skinny on what our teens and tweens really want us to get through our thick skulls!
I scoured the blogosphere and read posts written by teens themselves plus many by therapists, teachers, and various people who've worked with teens for decades. I also dove into Quora and Reddit for additional (very colorful) comments by teens when they were asked the question, "what do you wish your parents understood?"
Today, you’ll hear the most often repeated issues that teens really wished you understood (including a few of those candid comments!)
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Access transcript here.
Other Relevant Podcast Episodes (in order of mention in Ep. #28)
Ep. 26 Maintaining a Deep Emotional Connection With Your Teenager
Ep. 7 Beyond Weekly Therapy: Options for a Teenager in Crisis
Ep. 16 Settling Conflict While Supporting Your Teen's Autonomy
Sources
15 Things Teenagers Wish Their Parents Knew (By Teenagers)
7 Things Teens Wish They Could Say to Their Parents
What Teens Want Parents to Know
High School Survey Shows What Teens Think About Their Parents
5 Things Teenage Daughters Want Their Parents to Know
10 Things Teens Want Their Parents to Know
Here are the 5 Things Your Teens Wish You Understood About Them
What Teens Wish Their Parents Knew
What Your Teens Wants to Secretly Tell You
In Quora, I started Here but clicked on many of the other questions over on the right navigation bar as well (if you're interested) Some comments were edited for clarification or brevity.
Reddit was a little more difficult. I started Here but had to click on the various questions as I scrolled down the page and then on to the next page. Very interesting if you have time! Some comments were edited for clarification or brevity.
You might be interested in one or more of the following FREE GUIDES:
“10 Keys to Unlock Your Teen’s Emotional Intelligence”
“The Challenging Adolescent Brain” (e-book)
“Emotional Awareness Strategies” (for parents)
“Why Doesn’t My Teen Sleep?” (e-book)
“Communication for Teen Cooperation”
“6 Things You Should Understand About Your Teen”